This is my way to tell people, being a homosexual isn't a crime, but a hypocrisy in a purest form.
Let me tell you there was a time when i was against it, but then after several encounters and debates w/ it's supporters, i took it upon my self to give it a serious thought, the question for which i was trying to find answers were ..
i) is being homosexual unethical, UN-natural.
ii) is it really a disease, as most people say.
iii) is it offensive to our so called Indian culture.
iv) does homos are more vulnerable to STDs etc
and then it got me thinking, India is one of the most diverse countries in world, comprising every shade of skin, every essence of human expression and every way of human life, then why are we so skeptical about someone being gay or lesbian.
Research says that long before humans became civilized some our forefathers were homos, so obviously it's not UN-natural.
Being homo can only be termed as disease only if the everyday independent choices we make as per our needs is an ail, and about STDs its a common sense even if heterosexuals perform unsafe sex they can become vulnerable to STDs as well
Lastly, about the point i mentioned above about terming homosexually as unethical and shutting it in the name of being offensive to Indian culture, we never thought but India is democratic country every person here has a right to choose and do what best for him.so we should leave people to choose what they want, and something about which we should really worry is being corrupt because that is unethical,. killing is unethical, deaths of thousands of Israelis n Jews was unethical,
Indian media covering modi at madison sqaure garden, and not the deluged people of meghalya and assam is unethical.
w/ these i would urge you all please LIVE N LET LIVE.
the below poem is a fun, from POV of a lesbian about her love, enjoy
कोने में बंद किसी संदूक सा
तुम्हारी निशानियाँ उठा लाती थी |
देख उठ संदूक को घंटो,
खोलने की सोचती थी
ना जाने कितनी बार की है ये जुर्रत
हर बार पर हिम्मत टूट जाती थी |
डरती थी शायद इसके अंजाम से,
फुसला इसलिए मन को नहीं पाती थी |
थक चुकी थी मैं खुद को समझा समझा कर,
यादों को तुम्हारी इसलिए , कोई बहाना बता देती थी |
पर बास अब और नहीं ,
अभी नहीं तो फिर कभी नहीं
तोड़ दूंगी आज मैं इस बेबसी को
रंग दूंगी खुद को इस नए रंग में |
अजनबी कर दूंगी अब हर आरज़ू को,
क्यूंकि शौक मुझे तुम्हारा हुआ |
झूम उठूंगी जब भी तेरी धुन बजेगी
बता दूंगी अब सबको नहीं हूँ मैं उनके जैसी
प्यार है मुझे तुमसे अब गा-गा के सुनाउंगी,
क्या हुआ तुम अगर लड़की हो ||
शुक्रिया
Let me tell you there was a time when i was against it, but then after several encounters and debates w/ it's supporters, i took it upon my self to give it a serious thought, the question for which i was trying to find answers were ..
i) is being homosexual unethical, UN-natural.
ii) is it really a disease, as most people say.
iii) is it offensive to our so called Indian culture.
iv) does homos are more vulnerable to STDs etc
and then it got me thinking, India is one of the most diverse countries in world, comprising every shade of skin, every essence of human expression and every way of human life, then why are we so skeptical about someone being gay or lesbian.
Research says that long before humans became civilized some our forefathers were homos, so obviously it's not UN-natural.
Being homo can only be termed as disease only if the everyday independent choices we make as per our needs is an ail, and about STDs its a common sense even if heterosexuals perform unsafe sex they can become vulnerable to STDs as well
Lastly, about the point i mentioned above about terming homosexually as unethical and shutting it in the name of being offensive to Indian culture, we never thought but India is democratic country every person here has a right to choose and do what best for him.so we should leave people to choose what they want, and something about which we should really worry is being corrupt because that is unethical,. killing is unethical, deaths of thousands of Israelis n Jews was unethical,
Indian media covering modi at madison sqaure garden, and not the deluged people of meghalya and assam is unethical.
w/ these i would urge you all please LIVE N LET LIVE.
the below poem is a fun, from POV of a lesbian about her love, enjoy
कोने में बंद किसी संदूक सा
तुम्हारी निशानियाँ उठा लाती थी |
देख उठ संदूक को घंटो,
खोलने की सोचती थी
ना जाने कितनी बार की है ये जुर्रत
हर बार पर हिम्मत टूट जाती थी |
डरती थी शायद इसके अंजाम से,
फुसला इसलिए मन को नहीं पाती थी |
थक चुकी थी मैं खुद को समझा समझा कर,
यादों को तुम्हारी इसलिए , कोई बहाना बता देती थी |
पर बास अब और नहीं ,
अभी नहीं तो फिर कभी नहीं
तोड़ दूंगी आज मैं इस बेबसी को
रंग दूंगी खुद को इस नए रंग में |
अजनबी कर दूंगी अब हर आरज़ू को,
क्यूंकि शौक मुझे तुम्हारा हुआ |
झूम उठूंगी जब भी तेरी धुन बजेगी
बता दूंगी अब सबको नहीं हूँ मैं उनके जैसी
प्यार है मुझे तुमसे अब गा-गा के सुनाउंगी,
क्या हुआ तुम अगर लड़की हो ||
शुक्रिया
